I don't think he was talking to you like a 5th grader, Didn't sound that way at all. I have told people so many times about the firing pin hole needing bushed that I'm tired of beating a dead horse, That's why I didn't say anything to you about it, Your Rem 7 works for now, Keep shooting it until there is a problem, At that time you will need to get the firing pin turned down and the firing pin hole bushed smaller. The reason the primer is extruded is because if you look at the primer closely, You can see that the firing pin is quite a bit smaller than the hole, You can see the primer material flowed around the firing pin tip and into the hole, Creating the extrusion.
Should you start reloading and push the limits on your 7mm-08, You will experience pierced primers, If you continue shooting it that way, You will have several problems, You will get primer blanks inside the bolt causing malfunction or breakage, Then it will also cause flame erosion of the firing pin hole, The firing pin and the bolt face.