@ kgarrett
"... I'm a believer that less recoil is better - improves shot placement - all things being equal. It's not though, is it? ..."
I agree wholeheartedly!
If shooting a certain firearm is uncomfortable, you aren't going to shoot it as well as a more comfortable round.
I had always heard that the .458 Win Mag was a beast to shoot. But I wound up with one anyway.
Out if curiosity, I burned nearly a box of ammo through it!
1) I DO NOT suggest benching a .458 Win Mag!
2) The recoil of the Ruger M77 "African" in .458 Win Mag was NOT the sharp jolt I was expecting, but rather a heavy "push"!
3) though I was (not now!) comfortable with the recoil of my bolt .270 Win, I found the .270 recoil more uncomfortable than the .458
Stock configuration and caliber have a lot to do with how any particular person reacts to recoil.
I've seen great big stout guys that couldn't handle recoil and I've seen little scrawny dudes shooting heavy mag calibers!
WTBS!
I'm not a big believer in putting a .243 Win in the hands of a novice hunter! There is just way too much that can go wrong.
I'd opt for a 7×57 Mauser, .257 Rbts, .260 Rem or even a .30-30 Win.
BUT....that's just my opinion!