I have the same rifle, Tikka T3 lite.
I worked up a decent load with the 95 VLD's and H4350 (measured with magnetospeed)
40.5 grains = 2849 fps
42.5 grains = 2998 fps
Accuracy node was around 41 grains at 2890 fps, shoots sub moa, but not super accurate.
I also worked up a great load with Varget and the 87 grain Vmax:
38 grains = 3082 fps
40 grains = 3245 fps
Accuracy node was around 39.5 grains at 3215 fps
Shoots them great, sub .5 moa
If you have some Varget, may want to give it a whirl with the 87 VLDs.
It also shoots the 100 grain Sierra Pro Hunters great with H4350, but that is a flat based bullet and not too long, so it stabilizes them fine. I tried some 105 amax's that I had laying around just for the hell of it and it was throwing them all over the place.
As always, back off and work up, hope that helps.